Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Challenge 34

This weeks challenge is to love people enough to let them be as they are without trying to change or fix them.  In times of stress, which happen around the holidays, people often show their egos full blown.  It can be challenging to work around others, their egos and their schedules.  So often we find ourselves stressed or upset with someone else and their list of priorities that may not match our list.  Take a moment and a breathe this week and reflect on your own frustrations.  Do you want someone or something to change?  Love yourself and the other person by taking time to realize that people are where they are at in their life journey and you aren't going to change that or fix it and they don't need your help in creating a new space.  Take time to realize that situations are as they are and that you can't change them either.  Communicate your needs but do everyone a favor and just let people be who they are and where they are in their life.  If someone drives you nuts, let them be.  You can bless them, love them and leave them to their own selves.

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